How to Stop Caring About What Other People Think
why is it? that we think about what other people think
Caring About What Other People Think actually makes you a good person
so better question is, How do I manage what other People Think?
we humans suck before 8 billion years ago, we use to leave in a small group of tribes where everyone depends on each other, so when your tribe rejects you are as good as dead, our brains are still primitive, so even now when somebody or someone rejects you, it feels painful, so the good thing about the modern age is that we can pick our own tribe, we can easily find someone with same interest and form or join a tribe. if you get rejected, you can easily change your tribe, find a new one.
You can never change seeking social validation, you always crave social validation. But you can change who you seek that validation from.
You can decide, who are the people you what to impress, who are the people
worth impressing.
And this is the problem with most people who ask this question they have surrounded them selfs by petty, shitty people. I think now you get it!
Instead of not Caring About What Other People Think, just find better people. Surround yourself with people you admire, people you look up to, people who can teach
you something, who respect you for who you are. it's not that easy
the harsh truth is if you care about what people think, it's probably because you don't have something more important that you care about. when you have something worth being embarrassed over when you have something ridiculed for? ( Elon musk when starting space x)
if you can't answer this question, I think that might be the problem?
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Until the next post,
Devaki Nandan