it's pretty simple there are three parts to it.
the first part is to cut out all the stuff that is not enhancing your life that's not helping you in some way to find nutritional resources of information and connection and in third be very deliberate about how you use technology so step one cut out all the shit. this is actually in, In my opinion, the most fun step because we all follow those people online we all read websites that we ask ourselves what the fuck am I doing like why am I doing. this isn't pleasant this doesn't make me happy I'm not learning anything now is the time to go through and cut all of that shit out probably the most helpful thing I did all of last year I purged my friends and followers list I went through my Instagram, Youtube and my Twitter and I look every single person I asked myself is this a person I care about is this a person that I'm learning from or that is enhancing my life in some way and if it was not a clear and easy yes I unfollowed them you just have to be fucking merciless about who you unfollow. everybody's got that crazy uncle who thinks that like vaccines or a world conspiracy to brainwash us or whatever it's like unfollow that shit.
I mean you could stay friends with them just like unfollow them just like mute him on all of your stuff don't get sucked into it anymore the same thing goes for news and media stories take a very hard look at where you're getting your information ask how biased it is ask how important it is 90% of the news media that we consume is just not that relevant or important than the long run what I find is that when you get rid of all the extra garbage you start enjoying using these things again it's not a compulsive thing that you feel like you have to check every 10 minutes. it becomes like a nice relaxing thing to do before dinner one day and then you read it for 15 minutes and then you're done like that's the beauty of it when you want to follow like 80% of the people you're following there's not much to read each day like you scroll a few times and now you're back to the shit you saw yesterday so it's beautiful it forces you to get off your phone. point number 2 is to seek out nutritious forms of information I mean long-form content things that take at least 10 or 20 minutes to watch or read things that require a lot of research and thought put into them don't read like the stupid fluff pieces that show up that are churned out like five times a day on some news media website like find the shit that you know the guy spent three or four months researching that stuff to write that out that's what you should be filling your attention with every chance you get and finally number three be very deliberate about how you use your technology the way I like to do this is to set up things in my environment that like disallow certain behaviors so for instance, on my work computer I have all social media block gaming websites block video stream services blocked like you can't open that shit can't restart the computer you can't put in a password I give myself 30 minutes of break time per day and that's it I use a program called
they're a bunch of different programs and Chrome Extensions that do this there's one called freedom there's one called BlockSite,Focus they're great you can get them for your phone you can program them to only allow a certain amount of time on each website if you only want to be on Instagram for 15 minutes a day you can set that up start using this software(Limit for Desktop) to manage your own usage you know I don't I don't even have social media apps available on my phone directly I make it so that I have to go to the website which is a total pain in the ass but it's a pain in the ass for a good reason so I don't actually fucking do it because look if I go out and buy like two gallons of ice cream and leave it in my fridge of course I'm gonna eat it like the best way to not eat crap is to not buy crap and put it in my fridge if you only have access to healthy sources of information then you end up spending your time consuming healthy sources of information another thing that's really good to do start setting rules about your phone I don't bring my phone into my room I leave it in my bedroom because you got to use it when you take a break. you remove the opportunity to even be tempted in the first place you don't even like willpower doesn't even come into the equation because of the temptations not there in the first place. I am like no phones in the bedroom although I break that rule sometimes still it's a good thing to aspire to if we're watching a movie no phones during a movie and if you want to get hardcore this is some hardcore. I know one guy who does this but you can buy these things that you put in your electrical outlets and they have timers on them and you can set them up so that the electrical outlet only works certain times a day and so what my friend did is he set it up to his Wi-Fi router and so his Wi-Fi router turns off at 10 o'clock every single night I'm kind of getting the shakes just thinking about that's like the ultramarathon of the attention diet that's like the guy who's like oh he only eats raw vegan does a thousand push-ups every day that's only for like the true nut jobs out there and let's talk about socializing because one of my most important rules is that if I'm out socializing I don't pull out my phone unless it's really important I don't sit there I don't fucking check email and scroll while somebody's talking to me we need to establish a new social etiquette around this stuff smartphones are like the new cigarettes.
it's bad enough that I'm destroying my own attention right now trying to talk to you but I'm also kind of fucking up your attention too like it's like secondhand attention smoke if I'm sitting here talking to you like this because you can't focus on me if I'm talking into my phone or if I'm paying attention to my phone attention is is this very it's a scarce resource it's something that needs to be practiced and managed within ourselves and it's also something that affects other people if my attention is all sucked up it's gonna mess up your attention as well nobody likes hanging out with somebody who's always distracted all the time because it makes us feel distracted all the time get your own shit in order and then maybe your friends will want to hang out with you again.
it's really basic get conscious about the media you're consuming get conscious about the apps you're using there's a lot of research out there that shows that attention spans have been dwindling over the last 20 years and there are all sorts of negative side effects that come from that lack of attention span you know if we're not able to focus for more than two or three seconds at a time we actually lose a mental ability to handle a lot of different tasks and have the discipline to see projects through to the end so exercise your attention span treat it like a muscle you know it's like the same way we have to consciously get out of the house and be physically active we need to consciously start training our minds to be more attention early active summers coming start paying attention to your attentional waistline get your attentional fitness in order start using the attention diet and if you need me I'll be on Instagram.